How to Get Your Ex back in 5 Steps. Guaranteed!

Life just isn’t the same without him.

You find yourself missing him, wanting to pick up the phone and tell him that you miss him, remembering the good times.

So now you want to know how to get him back and how can you do this?

Here’s what you should do to get your ex back...

1. Find Out if He Still Cares About You

Before going through the key steps to getting back with your ex, you need to find out if he still cares about you.

This is indeed the key!

While the relationship has ended, the chances are high that your ex holds a soft spot in his heart just for you.

If he does, it’s going to be much easier for you to get him back.

In fact, that space you occupy in his heart is going to be the most powerful ally in your efforts to get him back.

However, if you find out that your ex has stopped caring for you and have made it clear he doesn’t want you in his life, it’s better to stop now than let your attempts go down the drain.

2. Give Him Space

Now that you’ve concluded that your ex cares about you, you should instantly move onto this step.

Giving him space is the most important one but unfortunately also the most difficult.

Here it is:

Do nothing!

Take your time and give him some space. This is really essential.

You should take some time to reflect on yourself and the things that went wrong in the relationship. 

Doing this, it’s important to move from worrying about things to just simply reflecting on the good and the bad of the relationship.

By giving your ex space, you’re also giving him time to also reflect.

3. Don’t Give in to What He Wants

Okay, you’ve figured out your ex still cares about you, you’ve managed to give them space and stopped contacting him.

Soon, the chances will be high and your ex will reach out to you.

It’s likely to happen, and when it does your ex will want to talk about what he felt he needed more from you in the relationship.

If your ex happens to contact you, don’t let your emotions get ahead of you and give him what he wants and tell him you’ll do anything to make him stay.

Never do this!

4. Improve Yourself

Now that you’ve shown your boundaries, given your ex space, and started to spend more time with him you need to follow the next step.

You should focus on improving yourself.

Changing yourself for the better is a productive way of showing a positive side to yourself.

Make sure to change, not for him, but mainly for yourself.

Try to get a new haircut and a new style, and change your negative traits.

Keep working on yourself and be the best version of yourself.

5. Don’t Force It

You’ve done almost everything and became a better person – now what? 

The last thing you need to do is contact your ex and beg them to come back. 

You should remember that your ex broke up with you for a reason. It is entirely up to him whether he wants to go back to you or not.

Even with these efforts at self-improvement, there is really no guarantee that you’ll be winning him over.

However, what you get at the end is the guarantee that you can live and thrive in a reality where you’re not in a relationship anymore. 

Even if it doesn’t work out with him, you are preparing yourself for the other people that could get into your life.

Without even knowing it, you’ve already put in the time and effort to become the best version of yourself – and that’s infinitely better than being in a relationship. 

Conclusion

Don’t play games – always value yourself enough to be above mediocrity.

When we start to value ourselves, others will too!

When you decide, to be honest with yourself, to love yourself, and accept nothing less than what you want, you will radiate it.

When you choose happiness and take care of yourself, stop worrying about what other people think, and start living your best life, it’s infectious. 

It’s attractive and powerful, and people notice – even exes.