Are you ready to transform your bedroom into a sex positive, sensual, vibrant, highly atmospheric space? Follow our Avid guide to help awaken the right chakras to enhance your sexual adventures in the bedroom!

Warm Colors
Warm colors in shades of red and purple awaken the sexual chakra immediately. Choose one prominent wall in your bedroom. The one facing the bed or the one behind the bed to paint a hue of cherry or wine. Choose a color that’s vibrant and preferably full bodied. Light colors are beautiful too but in this case we are trying to augment the light’s density. (note: avoid magenta or candy apple red. Think ruby rose scarlet berry).

Positioning

Where to position your bed? As far from the door as possible. You do not want the bed to be the most obvious thing when one walks into your room. This builds the right kind of mystery. There is a trajectory to be done to get to the good place of the room and this is exiting. Favor light pearl white sheer fabric draping over the bed. Something that indicates that this is the most intimate section of the room.

Proper Lighting
The Lighting- one of the most important elements. Avoid ceiling fixtures at all cost however beautiful they may be. Ceiling lights absorb a lot of energy from the room and also drop shadows along the body that are not always the most flattering. Arrange to have 3 dim sources of light coming from different parts of the room. Choose low spots but not all at the same level. Have all sources close to a wall as if to illuminate nothing else in the room. The reflexing light makes for something magical. Have one source be visible, preferably the one on the floor. Have the two other sources be invisible, meaning in a nook or behind a piece of furniture as to only see the lighting on the wall it faces. If possible choose incandescent yellow lightbulbs. They give a nicer tint to the skin. Also, Candles are never a mistake. The most romantic and the one’s that burn the longest are pillar candles. They are recommended as not feel like you ever are running out of time (tea light candle that burns out in 3 hours make one subconsciously feel like something just came to an end). You don’t want to rush!

De-Clutter!

Clutter- it is most unappealing to be intimately physical and breathe properly if it is stuffy in one’s room. Clear out the floor of any small objects, clear out anything under the bed. Perhaps it is time for a major cleanse. Donate things that you no longer have any use for.

Objects hold energy and too much of it will weigh any space down. Give it away even if it’s difficult to do so. You will not regret it once it’s done. You need to make room for new experiences. You need to have proper air flow and a space that is visually clear to feel relaxed and joyfully sexy.

Decoration
Be selective! Find up to 5 objects you simply cannot live without, objects that have absolutely no use besides being beautiful to decorate your room. Jewelry ornamenting your boudoir is very sensual and recommended. Especially beside a mirror. Be careful though not to overwhelm it with too many items, especially not with your make up or toiletry. Be discreet about those items. They are too distracting and visual clutter.

Go Natural
Natural materials. Use wicker, wood, or any natural basket bins for that toiletry. Always favor cotton or any natural fiber for your sheets. It’s a detail that ends up completely changing the way your bodies relate to each other.

Reflect
Mirrors – if that’s your thing! It is suggested to avoid having them too close to the bed but have them definitely facing it, perhaps from the other end of the room, so you could see the whole picture. It makes for a cinematic, voyeuristic point of view.

Artwork
When it comes to selecting artwork, avoid family photos. Choose artwork that speaks to you in secrets ways. Artwork that you like for reason you might not want to tell to just anybody.